At that point, the calls become less frequent, until eventually you’re sitting there wondering, “Why hasn’t she called? ” She might be studying with her girlfriends or helping out her sick grandma, but most tend to think the worst.You’ll either freak out and start acting like a jealous psycho or run out and party with as many random broads as possible, both of which are unfortunate.Some people take distance as a free pass on morals.
The same goes for those who constantly travel for work purposes.
It’s too damn easy to fly into a new city, bang a stranger, and keep it moving like nothing ever happened.
There’s no way to know what she’s up to for sure, so unless you’re ready to put all your trust into someone, don’t take the risk.
Even if you totally adore somebody and want to spend the rest of your life with them, it’s extremely hard to ignore attraction to others after a while, especially when you haven’t has sex for a while.
Eventually, you have to ask yourself if all the work you’re putting in is worth it, and if it is, that’s amazing--hold onto each other forever.