While loving someone with ADD can be hard, it is undeniably so incredibly fun, passionate, and truthfully candid. The breed somehow manages to be magically capable of passion and drive, despite all of the other millions of things they impulsively dabble in. They may seem unattached and indifferent, but if you are dating someone with ADD, they have picked you out of the crowd to give up a little of their youthful selfishness to be in a committed relationship with you.
Even if you are proverbially the center of an ADD person’s world, they aren’t going to miss out on what else is happening. There aren’t expectations of how the relationship “should be”, it is super go with the flow to see if we can do it for the rest of our lives.
Since we have an appreciation for all life has to hold, little things excite us, and being able to deeply please someone with surprise flowers (without having to have them flown in from some foreign country) is rewarding. Adventurous (as well as impulsive) is an ADD girl’s middle name.
You want to go on the hunt to find the best noodles in Chinatown? And if that plan turns into finding the best pizza in all of the west side? We aren’t indecisive because we’re picky; we are indecisive because we are open to everything. An ADD partner gives you a refreshingly honest relationship.
This can be frustrating for someone who wants to spend a very large chunk of their time with his or her significant other, but a healthy relationship really should be two whole individuals coming together, and not two halves making each other a whole.