They took care of each other and supported each other’s goals and ambitions. He wanted a more stable and established woman with less drama to deal with.
Lisa mentioned something very important about him, that from the beginning he stated that he would do whatever he wanted and see whoever he wanted because he is a free single man and would never live on his knees again. They both loved each other passionately but couldn’t see eye to eye anymore.
Men in their early 30s are also an attractive prospect as you suspect they have their life together and may just be ready for a committed relationship?
However in your early 20s’s quite often the idea of dating a man older than 39, just wrong seams… He’s old and may have grey hairs- you know, down there; and you figure he’ll definitely have a marriage and child/ren somewhere in the equation and you really don’t need the drama or a man so set in his ways there is no room for change.
Well by some anomaly, they often start to consider and actively engage in dating men significantly older than them; that’s if they don’t swing in completely the other direction and start taking up with men 10 years younger, which personally sounds like a living hell to me.
However, I have known friends do it quite successfully stating: “he keeps me feeling young”.
Deciding to enter into a relationship with someone is an important decision that should not be taken lightly regardless of their age or yours.