Suppressed sexual impulses often lead gay men into dysfunctional relationships.
When sexual impulses are acknowledged and openly shared with other gay men, sexuality becomes a vehicle for intimacy and connectivity instead of a tool for power-play and compensation for weak masculinity.
Paul expects that the future for gay men will bring progress, love and happiness much greater than what we have seen in the heterosexual world spanning the past 10,000 years of modern history. #1: Gay men have a significant advantage in life because there is no separation of gender in gay relationships.
This means that the challenges in gay relationships come mostly from the influences of heterosexual norms into gay life.
All gay men are lucky to be part of a historical shift in human development unprecedented since the beginning of mankind.