All you can do is trust your gut and don’t second guess yourself every step of the way. And if you want the support of others who have been through the process of dating after divorce, check out Divorce Net.com, a site where I used to moderate an online dating forum.
Apparently she still wants to make things work with HIM, and he said she would, "lie to me to spite him", if I asked her the situation.
however, he has also gone to the Courthouse, sent me a picture of it, walked me through the steps every day that he is taking to get detangled from her, from attorney convos to paperwork He claims he's just been lazy about it before now, and kept hoping the marriage could be saved somehow, but that there is nothing left to save, its over, and he wants me.... Do I have a chance at him really getting a divorce?
Also, it seems that about 40% of the men who state they are divorced are actually still going through the process. That stated, I have come up to some heavy objection from both family and friends – hence I’m here.
They have given many examples of relationships that began quickly after a separation/break-up, so I am beginning to wonder if I am selling myself short – being too rigid.
And I realize I am at least the catalyst, but Im praying Im not the reason..