"This maturity is not tied to financial success — it comes from simply being at a secure place in their lives from having lived in the world longer," adds Hokemeyer.
For both sexes, knowing what you want in a relationship (and sorting out how to get it) is generally a sign of success, and an indicator of emotional health.
If you’re thinking about dating a younger man, congratulations.
Be open to the possibility In order to date a younger man, a woman must first attract a younger man into her life. The same is true in what you attract in the form of men. Once this mental frequency is set, it’s ready to be received by younger guys— when you’re walking your dog, in a grocery store, or out with friends. Your younger man may surprise you with an unexpected level of self-awareness. Less guarded emotionally (and lacking the years of dating and its corresponding disillusionment), a younger man comes with a cleaner slate.
In order to date a younger man, create the mental frequency for his response. He may possess an emotional capacity you didn’t anticipate. Younger men are exceedingly comfortable with your power, and don’t need to diminish you, in order to substantiate themselves. What attracts a younger man to an older women, is the lack of games. It’s a blank canvass upon which the two of you may design the finest romance imaginable. There will be exciting differences A younger man will force you to grow. He may not listen to the same type of music, or use the same reference points in conversation that are familiar to you.
You’ve become less reactive (what men call “crazy”), taking on life with a greater perspective while taking yourself less seriously. Just because he’s young, doesn’t mean he’s sexually naïve. Younger generations have grown up with a more open attitude toward sexuality. The oldest man I’ve ever dated was still 12 years younger than myself. But at 80, I probably won’t feel like writing about it.