“If you decide to pursue the ex, you should be prepared to lose the friendship.
“Most people are highly uncomfortable with these situations, so it’s best to look for love somewhere else,” she adds.
If it’s a great match, it’s a great match.” Still, it’s best to proceed with caution.
Martenson advises “letting things dissipate a bit” before making your move.
“I have one client who’s dating a girl because he likes the way she loves him.