Since the Sexual Revolution, women have been progressively building their self-worth, assertiveness, social and political power, and this has led to the emergence of a new brand of woman.
The new Alpha Female is sometimes accused of behaving in a masculine manner and is even labeled negatively when she is seen to be acting against her traditional roles.
Now, of course, there needs to be room for individual differences, personality styles and family backgrounds, but generally, if you responded more YES than NO, the research suggests you may be an Alpha Female.
If you are an Alpha Female and you’d like to experiment with Beta Males, start with your imagination.
Spend 10 minutes each night visualising yourself in a happy relationship with a man who supports you, doesn’t compete with you and allows you to be YOU.
Katz agrees and says that it can lead an alpha male to cheat on a partner as he pursues his desires first if he doesn’t have a strong moral code that precludes cheating.
Maybe, there’s nothing you can do to prevent him from chasing other women, but if you have an open relationship that allows you to do the same or to pursue others together, you might both be happy.
You could say, “I have a hunger for shrimp tonight. ” He still is leading, but you have offered input about the evening’s destination.