” or “What’s your name” or “Can I buy you a drink” to capture a woman’s attention.Women have heard those lines too many times, and they are so generic that you could be using them on any woman, anywhere.TIP…do this instead: The best thing to do is to WAIT for a signal from her to you that it’s okay to approach her.
Well, I have a little secret to share with you: women are equally frustrated by being hit on in the most inappropriate ways!
Don’t get me wrong, I know that some of you gentlemen absolutely have James Bond style and sex appeal and know how to attract our attention with just a look and a smile. Although the better looking you are the better your chances are – not fair, I know, but it’s the truth and that’s life.
If you want to pay her a compliment don’t go overboard and don’t make it about how hot she is.
Compliment her shoes or some accessory instead because that will show her you were paying attention to more than just her boobs! Don’t go where you’re not wanted or pop up out of the blue in her face: Make sure you aren’t going to scare the hell out of her before you start talking.
And to be quite honest, so you understand how we think a bit better, it’s frankly just annoying to women to be hit on when they are having fun with friends because then they have to stop to be polite to you, counting the seconds (hopefully not minutes) until you go and they can get back to their fun and GNO.