Or mention that you are having problems with your summer house’s landscaper. This approach to Indonesian women dating is completely different than the direct way which you’d go after a western woman.
Indonesian women have been taught by culture that someone needs to be the pursuer and relationships should go through several levels of courtship and approval.
Let me rephrase: Only 5% of unmarried Indonesian women between 20 and 34 living in Greater Jakarta were sexually active in 2010.
Since the population in the area is so large, it still represents over 300,000 girls.
I met a few girls who don't date Jakarta expats and I don't blame them.