That is the beginning of a real relationship, where you love that person enough to be honest about who you are, what you plan to do and be, and how you feel about them. Your would-be spouse needs to be proved and this is done by getting to know him/her better.
At this point, what does God’s Word say to the believer? You too need to be proved, in order to know if you can cope and actually be a helpmeet to the other party.
After designing and creating the blueprint for a happy home, the Bible says: God saw it and rated it as very good (Genesis ).
But the natural man with his own rules and ideologies corrupted it and this led to the (Hebrews 13:4).
The saying goes, “Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are” and “who you will become”, if I may add (Proverbs ).