Months ago, in a serious two-year relationship that broached the topic of marriage, the man she loved ended things.
So finding someone she was interested in enough to date for a month was good news indeed.
For myself, it depends, the most I've done is four dates with not feeling anything and there being no connection. fwiw...u feel if you are atracted to, knowing someone comes with time , a date it's suppose to make you want to know this person and on top of that want to kiss him, hold his hand,listen to his voice, to make u want to hear more of what he has to say .....i was madly in love with my boyfriends but i didnt know them ..i only knew a little and what i knew came with time not from the first night ....connecting ...mean a smile that may make u feel something inside ...^^^Yeah it's pretty fast. The only reason I would go a date with someone I wasn't 100% into during a first meet is to determine connection beyond attraction.
You feel like you're really kinda just spinning your wheels. If there is no attraction then there's no reason to plan a date (or continue the meet you're at for very long).
Unless it was someone I got along with enough to hang out with but not date and that person was ok with it.