And I find it hard to trust people who are into acting/performing because you never know when they are acting. If someone isn't good at conversation, then shouldn't they endeavor to improve? Not everyone has developed terrific conversational skills. And if he doesn't date, what would you suggest as an alternative? If it seems like a sesitive subject, then ask about it.
if she's not a geek then dont mention it unless you've had atleast 3 dates cause you'll put her off Personally, I find magic a little freaky. Starting a conversation is the hardest thing for many people. Yes, but sometimes it's hard to begin a conversation. Starting a conversation is the hardest thing for many people. ) so that if it comes up during a date, you won't have to think too much about it (you're probably thinking too much on the date already) or make a foolish remark off the cuff.
If you already know her, then start with things you have in common (work, school, etc.).
Talking to a girl shouldn't be any different from talking to anyone.
He said he wanted to know what was "in"--macho, sensitive, preppy-looking, etc. I meant for that particular girl btw principia- i dont think mentioning trek is a good idea unless you know for sure the girl is a geek. Connecting with someone is essential for any kind of real relationship, but you shouldn't let the initial awkwardness of meeting new people limit your decisions. Connecting with someone is essential for any kind of real relationship, but you shouldn't let the initial awkwardness of meeting new people limit your decisions. Revise them to be less volatile(/inflammatory/upsetting) Remember it (but for the love of humanity, don't keep the list with you on the date! Hate leads to suffering-Yoda The more bizzare a thing, the less mysterious it proves to be-Sherlock Holmes I reject your reality and substitute my own-Adam Savage A person is smart.