Running in circles or creating a destructive cycle is a sure fire way to kill a marriage.
Or visit a therapist to help you figure out why you no longer have a desire to communicate with your spouse.
Do you feel like your every action is being watched and criticized by your partner? Do you feel intimidated or afraid because of your partners constant criticism?
Intimacy is the act that allows us to bond as husband and wife.
If your partner is showing no or very little interest in intimacy with you then they are showing little concern for their emotional bond with you as a husband/wife.
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