Great chemistry is hard to come by, so when you meet a guy you click with, all you can think about is having sex with him.Problem number one: Once you give up the goods, you lose the upper hand in the dating power dynamics.
Plus, since you waited to give it up until you felt completely comfortable with this guy (right? If you click sexually with a guy, you might overlook a lot of his flaws or inflate his good qualities in order to justify your reasons for sleeping with him in the first place.
When you wait to have intercourse though, it'll be with your eyes wide open.
If there is not enough attraction between you and a man, he will be more likely to push for sex, and with much more urgency.
If you want to be a High Value, High Status woman, you need to realize that if you are not focusing on building attraction with men, you will find yourself having slept with men, but most of them would have run; only because there was not enough attraction.
This doesn’t mean that men are right, or that this is a good way or categorizing women; it’s just what commonly happens, on a surface level, and you need to be aware of it.