Then we spent several months seeing a Christian marriage counselor.
We got involved in our church’s couples group, and started reading marriage materials. ” She had to find out, “What is a Godly wife supposed to do?
I asked friends to “spy” on her, and they told me that she seemed fine … They told me to move on with my life and try to accept the fact that she was gone.
When Nancy told me she was filing divorce papers, I believed that our marriage was over. ” She looked away and whispered, “Yes, with a man at work. I’m going to quit my job tomorrow and I will never see him again. There might be a week where we would be caring and loving, and then we’d slip into old patterns and have to remind ourselves to get back on track.
A new personal mission Probably the one thing that helped me the most was the verse in 1 Peter 3:7 where it instructs me to dwell with my wife in understanding.